Cards Against Matrimony – A Hilarious Wedding Game

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Trying to think of a way to spice up your wedding reception? Create your own Cards Against Matrimony game.

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When planning our wedding this year, I knew our emcee was going to get people on the dance floor and ensure everyone had fun doing the wobble (I still can’t do that dance properly), but what about during the dinner portion? At most weddings, this time is a little awkward. The wedding party is at their exclusive table eating while all eyes are upon them and there is nothing really going on. So my wife and I decided to spice up this part of the evening with a game. I looked around online for ideas and at first considered mad libs or questions to put on the table like ‘what should we name our first child? Then one morning while jogging, it hit me.

 

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Cards Against Matrimony!

No it’s not a game, it’s an idea based off the hilarious game Cards Against Humanity. Unlike most of the party games you’ve played before, Cards Against Humanity is simple. Each round, one player asks a question from a black card, and everyone else answers with their funniest white card. If you haven’t played it yet, what planet do you live on? It makes for a great night filled with lots of laughs with 6 – 12 friends.

So, the twist is…. you can create your own version of the game by having lots of cards with different questions (as you can see above, players need to fill in the blank), and have someone at your wedding collect the cards and select a few winners (cards with the funniest answers). At our wedding, the winners received a prize – a group photo with us, the Bride and Groom : )

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The best part of planning your wedding reception!

Gents, this will be the most fun you’ll have planning your wedding (like we really partake in the planning anyway). Coming up with the questions was absolutely hilarious. My fiance, now wife, had so much fun in thinking of questions to display on the cards. At some point we realized that we didn’t want to have too many, so we decided on roughly twelve questions for the game. Instead of having a simple black cover for the other side of the card, we included some fun pics of us, with our family, and pics we had taken over time with friends.

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How do I create my own version of Cards Against Matrimony?

First, grab your fiance and spend some time brainstorming fun questions you can display on the cards. Take a few days and hilarious ideas will come to you naturally. Then select the pictures of you and your fiance which you’d like to use for your deck. Once you have the questions and pictures, you can make your own version at Make Playing Cards. Want to receive 5% discount on your entire purchase?  Use coupon code Ericmpc5off. 

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When you are on the site, choose the ‘Design your own game card’ option. Each card can be customized individually both front and back. As for the card dimensions and card stock, I chose the standard poker size and card stock (63.5 x 88.9mm & 300gsm). Since we planned on having one deck of Cards Against Matrimony on each table, and there were approximately 30 tables at the receptions, we created 36 cards for each question.

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On the 2nd step, choose ‘Same Image’ under Step 2 where you then will be able to upload one of your pictures.

 

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After uploading the picture, you can choose to add text on top of the image (we chose to skip this). The next step is to add text on the other side of the card which will be one of your questions. After you finish with one card, click ‘Add to Cart’ and proceed with the next card.

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You can even purchase boxes to put your cards in at MakePlayingCards.com. And don’t forget, you can get 5% off your entire order by entering coupon code Ericmpc5off.

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Your wedding guests will be very impressed with your own version of Cards Against Matrimony. Have fun creating your own version and feel free to leave any comments or fun questions you came up with! Cheers – Eric Melchor.

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The Creation of Adam is brought to life in Midtown Houston

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Photo Credits: Matthew Landry, Alex Saenz, Peter Molick Photography

It’s not every day when you can walk the streets of Houston and see a spectacular work of art worthy of showcase on a side of a building. For the people enjoying their bike ride or stroll on Fannin near Tuam, seeing a 60-foot-high by one city block-wide Michelangelo-type painting in the works is a spectacular sight.

How did this come to light?

French-American artist Sebastien Boileau, in partnership with UP Art Studio and the Texan-French Alliance for the Arts and the Midtown District, teamed up to present the largest mural ever produced in Houston. Not only is this project going to raise public art awareness within the community, but proceeds raised from this mural will help fund a children’s hospital mural project in Houston which will begin production in 2014-2015.

I had a chance to catch up with Sebastien “Mr. D” recently. In his own words….

Sebastien Boileau

Photo Credits: Matthew Landry, Alex Saenz, Peter Molick Photography

 

Eric: If you could tag any building in the world, what/where would it be?

Sebastien: If it was allowed (the illegal days are behind me), it would be the castle of Versaiiles. I was born near Versaiiles and would love to have an art show inside the castle being a son of the city. I would like to do installation and art in the building. As for an outside job, my target building in Houston is the AT&T building off I-45. Every time I am driving on I-45 it calls my name.

Eric: What was the biggest obstacles in successfully launching Eyeful Art?

Sebastien: The language. I came to the US with very broken English. Culturally it was not that difficult. After all, we, Europe and America, are cousins. But picking up the language was the biggest obstacle I had to overcome.

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Photo Credits: Matthew Landry, Alex Saenz, Peter Molick Photography

 

Eric: What are some of the works that you have created that you are most proud of?

Sebastien: Without a doubt I am really happy with this current art project. As for indoor art projects, I am very proud of being able to take part in the first graffiti show in Houston set at the Station Museum. My exhibition at “CALL IT STREET ART, CALL IT FINE ART, CALL IT WHAT YOU KNOW” is one of my proudest works.

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Eric Melchor & Sebastien Boileau

Eric: Have you ever received any crazy art requests?

Sebastien: Probably one of the most recent, was a building on Westheimer called Biscuit Home. It’s a company that sells all kinds of linen for the house. They fixed up the building beautifully and they wanted me to pour paint all over it. The irony of life. People are starting to ask me to do things to their property that years ago would never have been considered a ‘commissioned project’. Projects that used to get me in trouble are now becoming commissioned works.

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Sebastien with Eric Calvillo – one of the artist working on the mural

Eric: What celebrity do you get mistaken for?

Sebastien: All jokes aside, Viggo Mortenson. When the beard and hair is down, I cannot even go into Starbucks without having people come up to me.

(Seriously, he can pass for Viggo quite easily).

Eric: Name one thing about you that most people don’t know?

Sebastien: I am extremely goofy, but only those close to me really see that side of me.

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Photo Credits: Matthew Landry, Alex Saenz, Peter Molick Photography

Eric: What is one your favorite quotes?

Sebastien: Michelangelo – “I have suffered more than any man has in labor and bad health yet I remain patient to achieve a desired goal.”

Eric: If you could meet anyone living or dead, who would you meet?

Sebastien: I can’t really come up with a person that I am so intrigued by. There are people who have done great things, but regardless of who they are, they are just like you and me.

Interview closed.

To celebrate the completion of “Preservons la Creation”, come to Midtown Houston on Saturday, June 7th from 3:00 to 11:00pm. Location – 2800 San Jacinto / Northeast Corner of Fannin Street and Tuam Street. Tickets can be purchased here.

 

 

Houston – America’s Next Great City

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Houston is the place to be! Founded in 1836 and named after General Sam Houston who was elected President of Texas in 1836, the city is about a lot more than energy, healthcare and NASA. It attracts more than 7 million visitors a year who come to enjoy the performing arts scene. Thousands of entrepreneurs, innovators and professionals from all over the world move here every month because of quality of life and job opportunities. While it’s one of the country’s friendliest and welcoming cities, after all it welcomed 150,000 people from New Orleans who evacuated from Hurricane Katrina, here are a few other reasons why I love this city…

It’s the most diverse city in the States with over 80 languages spoken. We have a hospital system that’s the envy of the world. Our doctors in the medical center lead advances in health care innovation. Soon they will be able to replicate ears, kidneys and livers using incredible innovations like 3-D printing, where cells can be sculpted into any number of body parts. And the Arts! We have a wonderful spectrum of arts like the Houston Art Car Parade, the Houston Grand Opera and the Museum District that is bustling with exhibitions from all over the world. And don’t forget our extensive beautiful hike and bike trails that can get you to multiple destinations throughout the city. And there is much more to look forward to!

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Houston has the capacity, momentum and the vision to revolutionize city living in the next 20 years. By 2034, Houston will be a global center of trade, tourism and quality of life. Business districts will continue to grow and expand with the addition of many more office and residential towers to the South and West toward Midtown, Greenway Plaza and Uptown. The city’s East End will transform from a warehouse district to a residential one. Rice and the University of Houston will collaborate more closely with the private sector to ensure graduates have the skill sets in demand by employers. By 2034, when world leaders look for inspiration, they will look to Houston.

About the author – Eric Melchor is a native Houstonian who resides and serves on the Midtown Management District in Houston Midtown.

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Free Trees in Houston!

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CenterPoint Energy has partnered with the Arbor Day Foundation to provide FREE shade trees to qualifying customers in Houston.

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This is a great program that Houston residential home owners can take advantage of. Houston-area churches and schools can reserve up to 10 free trees. The types of trees available are: Live Oak, Baldcypress, Burr Oak, Cedar Elm, Nuttall Oak, Pecan Tree, Red Maple, Shumard Oak, Sweetgum, and White Oak.

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To quality, you must be located within CenterPoint Energy service territory. Trees will be available for pickup February 21st at Rice stadium in the west parking lot. You must complete the reservation process to claim you free trees.

An account of two Attitudes towards Richard Martinez

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On Friday, May 23, Elliot Rodger killed six and wounded 13 innocent people near the University of California, Santa Barbara. On May 24, the father of victim Chris Martinez said the following – “Our family has a message for every family out there. You don’t think it will happen to your child, until it does.” Choking on tears, he added, “His death has left our family lost and broken. Chris died because of craven, irresponsible politicians and the NRA. They talk about gun rights. What about Chris’ right to live? When will this insanity stop? When will enough people say stop this madness. We should say to ourselves, not one more,” before he collapsed in tears and walked off.

In response to Mr. Martinez’ comments, there were two vastly different attitudes that came forth.

 

Mark Barden, Richard Martinez

Mark Barden, Richard Martinez

The first one came from Mark Barden who lost his 7-year-old son, Daniel, in the 2012 Sandy Hook school shooting. He wrote the following: “We have not met, but you are now part of our extended family. It is not a family we chose, but a family born from the horrible circumstance of losing a child to gun violence – one that’s growing steadily. My heart breaks for you because I know just a little about the long road ahead of you. We have reached out to you privately but publicly we wanted to say to you and those feeling the sorrow, anger and frustration of this weeks’ shooting, you are not along,” Barden wrote in a letter to Richard Martinez.

The second response came from Samuel Wurzelbacher, aka ‘Joe the Plumber’.

Joe the Plumber

Joe the Plumber

“I am sorry you lost your child. I myself have a son and daughter and the one thing I never want to go through, is what you are going through now. But: As harsh as this sounds – your dead kids don’t trump my Constitutional rights… We still have the Right to Bear Arms and I intend to continue to speak out for that right, and against those who would restrict it – even in the face of this horrible incident by this sad and insane individual. I almost said “Obama Voter” but I’m waiting for it to be official…I cannot begin to imagine the pain you are going through, having had your child taken away from you. However, any feelings you have toward my rights being taken away from me, lose those.”

Mark Barden’s attitude is filled with kindness, love, humility, benevolence, generosity, compassion and empathy. Joe the Plumber’s attitude is filled with greed, arrogance, ego, superiority, antipathy, ‘his right’ and ideology.

America, which attitude will you choose?

What would Houston Police Captain H.R. Morris Say?

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Recently I had the opportunity to sit down with Captain Morris from Houston’s South Central Police Department. South Central covers neighborhoods in/around Midtown, University of Houston, Riverside, Hermann Park, Southampton, Oak Lawn and Eastwood. Very nice with lots of enthusiasm, here is the interview with Captain Morris…

Eric: Which celebrity do you get mistaken for?

Captain Morris laughs…

Captain Morris: I am not sure I’ve been mistaken for a celebrity.

Eric: Have you ever stolen a pen from work?

Captain Morris: No. In fact, I bring my pens to work, the Sharpie pens; those are the ones that don’t bleed.

(I thought I would have an opportunity to perform a citizen’s arrest)

Eric: What song best describes your work ethic?

Captain Morris: Skyscraper by Demi Lovato because it talks about rising up and not letting obstacles get you down

Eric: If you could address hundreds of residents in the community using a bullhorn, what would you say?

Captain Morris: I would let the community know that we need their help. We are here to work with them and improve the quality of life here in the neighborhood, but they need to contact us and let us know where crime is occurring because we cannot be everywhere. They have to be the eyes and ears of their neighborhood. Call us, call crime stoppers anonymously or come to the station and talk to us. We are never going to see all the issues that need addressing without their assistance.

Eric: Are there forums or neighborhood meetings that residents can come to and share their concerns?

Captain Morris: Yes! We have a monthly Positive Interaction Program meeting (PIP) that occurs every 3rd Tuesday of the month at 7pm here at South Central – 2202 St Emanuel St. Visitors have a chance to ask questions or submit forms pertaining to crime or quality of life issues. I along with the other Officers process these requests and address them. We also have a Differential Response Team (DRT) that specializes in dealing with issues related to code enforcements and city regulations.

Eric: Name one thing about yourself that most people don’t know?

Captain Morris: Most people don’t know I enjoy staying up all night.

Eric: What made you decide to become a police officer?

Captain Morris: I had never thought about becoming a police officer until I took a criminal justice class while in undergrad. I found it very interesting. Prior to taking the class, I had this perception that a police officer is someone who spends most of their time chasing criminals. In that class, I learned that there are boundaries, there are rules. When I finished that class, I knew exactly what I wanted to do. I’ve been an Officer for 15 years now and highly encourage people to find out more about joining the police department. Initially it was never my intent, but it has turned out to be a very rewarding career.

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Eric: In the past 3 years, what is a major decision that HPD has made that has made you very proud?

Captain Morris: Scenario based training. We are not just sitting in a classroom learning techniques or discussing ‘what if’ scenarios; we are actually getting out in the field and incorporating ‘real life’ scenarios that can happen while on patrol. For example, car chases and active shooters using Simunition Ammunition.

Eric: What is one of your favorite quotes?

Captain Morris: “If you don’t do it right do it over”

Eric: If you could meet anyone, living or dead, who would you meet?

Captain Morris: Ronald Reagan because he was able to accomplish a lot of things on a bi-partisan level that have benefited us today.

Eric: If you had to take a leave of absence for one year from HPD, and could say a few sentences to your Officers, what would you say?

Captain Morris: I would share with my Officers that what they do enforces what they believe the Houston Police Department should stand for. Their actions need to be in accordance with what HPD stands for and the values of the Department. If they base their actions on Integrity, Honor and Respect which are the core values of the department, then they can’t go wrong. Lastly, don’t be afraid to have fun.

[Story closed.]

Affirmative Action should no longer be based on Skin Color

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I am not a fan of Affirmative Action, but if it has to exist, it should be based off of class.

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Imagine this – a talented, hardworking white kid with good grades of a poor single mom loses acceptance into a University by an upper-middle-class minority student. Why should this happen? Because the grandparents of the minority student suffered discrimination decades ago?

When Affirmative Action was introduced by President Lyndon Johnson a half-century ago, minorities could expect to face humiliating economic and social discrimination. But today, affirmative action should be focused on class, not race.

Why?

Today one in six Americans now marries a person outside his or her own race which makes the job of determining racial preferences more convoluted. Does the child of a dark-skinned Bolivian with an Anglo father qualify? What about the mixed-race child of an African-American college professor and a white millionaire?

Skin color is no longer a clear indicator of privilege, but wealth certainly is. 92 percent of black students at elite colleges come from families in the top half of income distribution. Clearly, black (and white and Hispanic) at the bottom of the economic scale are being left behind.

Original talking points “Should race still matter?” featured in The Week, May 9, 2014.

4 Building Materials that can Drastically Reduce Greenhouse Gas Emissions

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Did you know that in the US, buildings and skyscrapers use more than 40 percent of the country’s energy? Skyscrapers are bigger power hogs than the transportation and industrial sectors. So one way to drastically reduce greenhouse gas emissions is to use different materials when constructing these skyscrapers.

Here are 4 materials that can be used when building skyscrapers that will dramatically reduce power consumption:

Zero-Carbon Building Block
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Replaces: Cinder blocks
Manufacturer: Lignacite

How it works: Carbonated aggregates (CO2 mixed with sand, cement, and water) plus recycled materials create one of the first carbon-negative chunks of masonry.

Heat and Light – Blocking Windows

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Replaces: Old-school glass
Manufacturer: Heliotrop Technologies

How it works: An electro-chromic coating lets a relatively inexpensive glass composite window adjust heat and light transfer to reduce energy consumption.

Pollution-Eating Concrete

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Replaces: Concrete
Manufacturer: Marshalls Paving

How it works: Titanium dioxide in “Noxer blocks” traps nitrogen oxides and potent greenhouse gases and converts them to water-soluble nitrates.

Solar Shingles
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Replaces: Roof-mounted solar panels
Manufacturer: CertainTeed

How it works:
Building integrated photovoltics, or BIPV, have been around since 2005, but they were not as affordable as they are today.